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Thomas Aeffner
Schwalmtal, Duisburg-Baerl
I am also happy to massage and accompany "seniors" and people with disabilities.
Philosophy
Just as a musician brings a song to life, or an actor a play, for me Tantra massage is an applied form of art. In my "previous life," I was a painter. When that was no longer possible, I dedicated myself to Tantra massage with the same passion. Whereas before I deeply moved people through my paintings, now this happens quite directly: through the touch of the body, I not only evoke joy and pleasure, but also touch the soul, if the person is open to it.
Tantra and tantric massage have fascinated me for many years – initially only theoretically. My spiritual quest first led me to other practices: autogenic training, tarot, yoga, and Reiki. It was only when profound changes occurred in my life that I decided to truly commit to this path. And I have not regretted lovingly accepting life as it presents itself, acknowledging the interconnectedness of all that is, and feeling lovingly connected to the people I encounter. For me, tantric massage is the tangible expression of lived love.
During a massage, I am in a meditative state: surrendered yet completely awake, fully present with the person I am with and yet fully present with myself.
You are welcome here, whether you are a man, a woman, or however you identify, as a person with a disability… just as you are. During the massage, I see the personality of the person within their body. I accept you as you are; I touch your soul through your skin – with love.
Placing yourself as a woman in the hands of a mindful man – one who is solely there for you in his touch, who wants nothing from you, to whom you can therefore surrender yourself completely, who places himself at your service – can bring you a previously unknown sense of well-being. Even the consequences of negative experiences, indeed even of abuse, can be alleviated and resolved in this way, as your self-healing powers are activated, allowing you to become whole and healed once more.
With me, you can also learn more about your ability to experience female ejaculation.
A massage from man to man is a unique experience: powerful, energetic. Even if your orientation is heterosexual, this experience of encountering masculine energies can be an unexpected enrichment.
If you live in circumstances that prevent you from experiencing loving touch, I look forward to showing you again how good it feels to experience tenderness.
It is your birthright to be happy – I would be happy to accompany you on your journey there.
Touch makes you happy!
As a massage therapist, I have specialized in the healing of the yoni.
Specific forms of Yoni massage are particularly suitable for releasing blockages in the genital area and stimulating the self-healing powers of the Yoni and the entire pelvic region. Through my previous training, I support people of all genders in becoming aware of their physical blockages, especially in the pelvic area, and in releasing them through specific sequences of touch. This form of bodywork (Dearmouring) brings about heightened sensitivity and increased pleasure, often leading to a feeling of greater vitality, joy, and balance.
In addition, to support your relaxation, I offer meditative flogging, bondage massages, Reiki treatments and hypnosis.
Feedback:
"Dear Thomas,
It's been several weeks since you massaged me, yet the memory still resonates in every cell. It was your masculine presence that allowed my femininity to blossom. I thought I knew about tantric massages. Far from it. What I experienced was a true heart-to-heart connection, into which I could surrender completely, supported by you, without having to maintain any control. What I experienced went very deep. You achieved what every woman longs for: to be recognized at her core and to truly feel like "the goddess" in that moment. At one point, my pelvis felt as vast as the universe. I was simultaneously fully present and yet in other realms. Much is written and said about tantra, and much of it is empty rhetoric, devoid of feeling and meaning. With you, it's different. One senses that tantra isn't just confined to the massage for you, but permeates your life, leading you to ever deeper insights. THAT is truly touching. The more a man is a MAN, in the best way, the more a woman can be a WOMAN. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this wonderful experience, and I look forward to the next time, which there will certainly be.
Feedback:
"I can only recommend booking a tantric massage with him. His hands have that certain something that enchants you and brings your body to a state of high tension."
What I found wonderful was that he came to my apartment. Because I have a mobility impairment. Important to know for older people who, like me, also have a disability.
I would also like to mention that more people, both women and men, should have the courage to experience massage.
All I can add is this: anyone who has experienced it will never forget being touched with such love.
Thank you for this wonderful time of closeness."
Feedback:
"Thank you for your special attention and very empathetic support in my special situation, after my breast cancer, which has physically disfigured me for 1 year."
You touched me deeply like no one before you ever could, and it was only through your presence that I truly felt accepted by you as a woman, and supported with such love, after the loss of my left breast. A moment that, through your patience, brought about a profound release from my pain.
After this special kind of appreciation from you, I could now truly feel free to fully enjoy your massage without any inhibitions!
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for this wonderful and very valuable experience with you!
I was allowed to be completely myself, to feel whole deep inside, in order to fly again.
To this day, I still have the feeling of your intimate embrace and loving touch.
I will always gladly relive this liberation and allow myself to flow more and more with my whole heart!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Thomas.
I hold you in my heart
All love"
Feedback:
"Although I have enjoyed various massages, including erotic ones by men, I had never experienced a tantric massage, so I was very curious about what to expect."
You explained it to me in detail and gave me the courage to surrender to your care. Your massages made my tension and headache disappear before you moved on to the lingam massage.
I was so relaxed and enjoyed this special massage, but I soon realized that I wouldn't be able to reach a normal orgasm from this deep state of relaxation.
That's why I was so surprised and moved by what I then experienced – I'd call it a dry "mental orgasm" that lasted a long time, even after you had stopped touching me. My emotions overwhelmed me and the tears flowed. You gave me the courage to let them flow and supported me emotionally. I'm especially grateful for that. It demonstrated your professionalism.
Dates & Facts
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Experience
seit 2014 Tantramasseur TMV
seit 2015 Tantramasseur und Ausbilder bei "Anlea"
seit 2018 Sexualbegleiter ISBB
seit 2018 Tantramasseur, Sexualbegleiter und Ausbilder bei "Tantrawelten"
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Languages
English, German, Dutch -
Qualifications
Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®
Background & Training
10/2014 – now
Tantramasseur TMV
12/2021
Der Yager-Code bei N. Preetz und E.Yager, Preetz-Hypnose
11/2021
The Pleasure Principle: How to Become a Sexual Healer bei Barbara Carrellas, Urban Tantra
08/2020
Hypnotische Orgasmuskontrolle bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
08/2020
meditativ Flogging bei Mag Ela,
08/2020
erotische Hypnose II, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
07/2020
Erotische Hypnose I, bei Undine de Rivière, BDSM-Hypnose-Seminar
05/2019
Shibari, Massage und Atem bei Robert Kriz und Marion May
04/2019
ISBB: Arbeit gegen sexualisierte Ăśbergriffe bei Lothar Sandfort
03/2019
energetic full body orgasm bei Andrew Barnes
10/2018
Flug des Phönix - dynamische Massage bei Nhanga Grunow, Didi Liebold, Petra Hällfritzsch
07/2018
Yoniheilmassage bei Elvira Malinovskaa, Jembatan
06/2018
Fesselmassage bei Kaya Köhn und Julia Dietz
04/2018
Vertiefung und Initiation bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
03/2018
Tantric Domination bei Apollo Adama, TheNewTantra
07/2017 – 02/2018
Sexualbegleitung fĂĽr Menschen mit Handicap bei ISBB-Trebel
01/2018
Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
11/2017
Kaschmirische Massage bei Dick Nijssen, Helios
10/2017
Umgang mit Sexualität von Menschen mit geistigen Behinderungen bei F Bottinga, proFamilia
09/2017
Tantra meets Handicap bei Deva Bhusha
05/2017
Shibari-Workshop bei Asmondeno
04/2017
Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Frank Bottema, TheNewTantra
03/2017
Childhood deconditioning bei Puja Lepp, TheNewTantra
02/2017
Tantra & Shibari bei tantra-atma/naturalbliss
02/2017
De-Armouring Training 2 bei Susanne Roursgaard
11/2016
"Living in Flow" Transmission Training bei Alex Vartman, TheNewTantra
10/2016
De-Armouring Training bei De'an Matuka, LoveCore
07/2016
G-Punkt, A-Punkt, weibliche Ejakulation bei Nhanga Grunow
04/2016
Sexual Deconditioning / Advanced Sex bei Bea Dominic, TheNewTantra
07/2015
Rotes Tantra / Tantrazirkel bei Manuel Hirning, Yoga-Vidya
06/2015
Hypnose bei Alfred HimmelweiĂź
05/2015
Tantramassage bei Anlea
03/2015
SET Sexuelle Tiefenentspannung bei Nhanga Grunow
02/2015
Ganzheitliche FuĂźmassage bei Elfriede Vogt, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule
01/2015
Becken-, Anal- und Prostatamassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
10/2014
Tantric Massage Practitioner TMV®
09/2014
Yoni- & Lingammassage bei Tegtmeier und Göbel, TantraConnection
07/2014
Rotes Tantra bei Manuel Hirning, Sukha Tantra Yoga
12/2013
Reiki Meister
10/2013
Lomi Lomi Nui Massage bei Jörg Weppner, Paracelsus Heilpraktikerschule
01/1982
freiberuflicher KĂĽnstler und Dozent
10/1974 – 01/1979
Studium Germanistik und Kunst (Nebenfächer: Pädagogik und Psychologie) in Essen
Directions
Praxis fĂĽr Entspannung
41366 Schwalmtal
+49 (0)2436 3825076
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Tantra-Welten
47199 Duisburg-Baerl
02841-9815073
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