Nicole

Sexual counseling and Coachings also available by phone / Zoom / Skype!

Counseling and coaching sessions in English, also via phone, zoom or skype! English text – scroll down!

Sexual counseling

I offer you the opportunity to talk openly with me about anything that's on your mind during these challenging times. Perhaps it's specifically about aspects of your sexuality that you'd like to change, explore, or simply understand. This can be anything; I offer counseling on all kinds of issues, such as premature ejaculation, lack of erections, orgasms, body awareness, pornography use, sexual fantasies, lack of desire in your relationship, difficulty allowing intimacy, and so on. Perhaps you simply have questions you've always wanted to ask—you're welcome to ask them too. I'm happy to take the time to discuss your concerns via Skype or Zoom. The duration and cost will vary depending on your specific needs. If you'd like to talk to me, please send me a short message.

Education and career path:

Recognized trainer and certified tantric masseuse (TMV®)

Seminar leader for Tantra massage at AnandaWave, Cologne

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and "Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich (Somatic Sex Education). Recognized by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).

Somatic Sexual Counseling ( IISB Zurich)

Thai Yoga Teacher (trained by Tobias Frank)

Pelvis Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantra Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of the EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Regular training courses, e.g. in sexual deep relaxation, orgasmic meditation, yoni massages (yoni communication, yoni as a sensory organ, yoni decongestion, yoni impulse therapy, yoni point press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

For sexual counseling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients. This means we explore a topic in their sexuality that they would like to change, explore, or perhaps simply understand. This can be anything related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body awareness, or even pornography use, fantasies, lack of desire in a relationship, difficulty allowing intimacy, improving their own sensory perception, and so on. We then work on this through a combination of conversation and, if necessary, bodywork. Often, just a few sessions are enough to bring about change.

I enjoy supporting couples in practicing communication about their desires and worries, pleasure and displeasure, getting to know each other better, and dealing with the positive and negative aspects of their sexuality in a mindful and loving way.

For massage:

I came to tantric massage years ago, originally "only" to feel my body again and get in touch with myself. I wanted to establish a connection between mind and body, without demands or expectations from the outside, without having to achieve anything.

My experiences with tantric massage rituals are almost indescribable; they touched and transformed me profoundly. I suddenly felt I was in the right place, in an atmosphere of appreciative, healing, and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing I had always felt within me but couldn't grasp because, until then, I hadn't even understood what I was truly searching for. The mindful tantric bodywork awakened healing processes within me, opened my heart and soul, and brought me into contact with my femininity.

Giving massages feels like a calling from my heart; I want to connect with people on a deep level, to touch their body and soul. For me, tantric massage is about simply being present, accepting what is, and being open to whatever may arise. As a massage therapist, I don't have to "achieve" anything, reach any goal, and neither does the person I'm touching. I respect each person's life story, their upbringing, and their personality, so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I meet the other person with a loving, empathetic attitude, full of care and allowing a deep connection to develop.

I accept you as you are. Make peace with your insecurities and fears, forget about clothing sizes or societal norms. I see the beauty within you, I cherish your body and your soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, listen to your inner voice, and surrender to your experience!

Training and career:

Certified Tantra Massage Therapist (TMV®) according to the criteria of the Tantra Massage Association eV

Training in " Sexological Bodywork " and " Sexological Body Therapy" at the IISB, Zurich ( Somatic Sex Education ). Recognized by the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

ThaiYoga teacher (after Tobias Frank)

Pelvis Work Practitioner ( IISB Zurich)

Member of the Tantra Massage Association (TMV®)

Member of the EASB (European Association of Sexological Bodyworkers)

Member of "Trusted Bodywork "

Massage co-director at AnandaWave, Cologne. Regular seminar facilitator.

Trained in classic tantric massage, yoni / lingam massage, dealing with sexual disorders in tantric massage, pelvic floor, anal and prostate massage, four-hand massage, female massage, Thai yoga massage

Regular training, eg in deep sexual relaxation, orgasmic meditation, Yoni massages (Yoni communication, Yoni as a sense organ, Yoni decongestion, Yoni impulse therapy, Yoni Point Press), intuitive massages, sensual meditations, Tao massage

Long-term spiritual self-experience through self-experience groups and seminars, systemic constellation work, kinesiology, meditation

Sexual counselling:

In my work as a sexological body therapist, I create a learning space for my clients, which means that we illuminate a topic that my client would like to change, explore or maybe even just understand. This can be anything, all topics related to erections, orgasms, ejaculations, body sensations or porn consumption, fantasies, lack of pleasure in the partnership, lack of intimacy, improving one's own sense of perceiving, etc. We work on it in a mixture of conversation and possibly bodywork . Often, a few sessions are enough to make a change.

I like to accompany couples in practicing communication with each other about desires and worries, lust and reluctance, to get to know each other better and to deal attentively and lovingly with the bright and dark sides of their sexuality.

Massage:

I discovered the tantra massage years ago, originally “only” to feel my body again and to get in contact with me. I wanted to establish a connection between mind and body, without external demands and expectations, without having to do anything.

My own experiences, which I was allowed to have through the tantra massages, can hardly be described in words, they touched and changed me deeply. I was suddenly in the right place, in an atmosphere of mindful, healing and sensual touch. There it was, the answer to a longing that I had always felt, but hadn't been able to grasp, because until then it was not clear to me what I was actually looking for. Mindful tantric bodywork has awakened healing processes in me, opened my heart and soul and made me more feminine.

I feel that giving massages is a call from my heart, I want to meet people in depth, touch body and soul. For me, the tantra massage is about being present, accepting what is, and being open to what may come up. As a masseuse, I don't expect anything, I don't have to achieve a goal, and neither does the person I am allowed to touch. I respect people with their life history, character and personality so that they feel completely accepted. I don't judge. I treat the other person in a loving, empathetic attitude, full of care and allow a deep connection.

You are accepted by me as the person you are. Make up for your insecurities and fears, forget about clothing sizes or social norms. I see the beauty in you, I adore your body and your soul. Every person, every body is unique and beautiful in itself, a miracle! Enjoy yourself, feel inside yourself and let yourself fall into your experience!

A selection of feedback:

This year I am floating on a quiet little cloud called "self-love" and wanted to let you know this evening,

That it is I who feel obliged to give thanks. Not because of any societal pressure on my soul, no, simply because of the wonderfully soothing and sensually emotional touch that my self experienced today through your hands.

The scent of the oils you used still lingers so delicately on my skin, just as your familiar, warm voice resonates in my ear. This exciting yet liberating experience, guided by you in a room filled with comfort, defies categorization, and therefore I won't label it. It was, and remains, the most beautiful Christmas gift I've received in what feels like forever.

I will carefully examine your sources of information and know at this very moment that we will meet again at some point in our lives.

I'm looking forward to it and say goodbye in the hope that you have a pleasant evening.

Kind regards, S. 17.12.2018

I would like to sincerely thank you for your empathetic and exceptional massage. Your positive energy and warm smile made me feel comfortable and secure from the very beginning. Even in our conversations before, during, and after the massage, you always found the right words and met me exactly where I was in my thoughts.
As you've probably noticed, I find it very difficult to talk about intimate things/desires. Your words about "saying what you want" have really made me think. I see a lot of room for improvement in this area.
Thank you for this special experience.
Best regards
C. 03.09.2018

In my thoughts, I'm sitting across from you again... with your open smile, your beautiful figure... you guided me, directed me, touched me, and gifted me. It was moving, it was warm, your breath caressing my face, I felt kissed as if by a snowflake... my thoughts were soaring, and then suddenly still... desire kept demanding more, and I chased after it. It was so wonderful to feel your soft skin on mine... you guided me, touched me, and gifted me. I'd love to experience it again. Thank you...
With love and warmest regards, M. 27.08.2018

Thank you! For your empathy, your femininity, for the space, for the timelessness, for the closeness....
And thanks for the tips - wow - a whole treasure trove full - I'll see what's available for me.
Kind regards, H., August 14, 2018


I feel great! The massage also allowed me to relax very deeply afterwards and showed me that there is definitely still a lot to discover.
Thank you so much for the wonderful time and the wealth of information! That should keep me busy for a while.
I felt completely at ease with you.
Kind regards, P. 02.05.2018


Good morning,
I'm already back in the office quite early, but I'm still really benefiting from your massage yesterday.
The massage itself and every physical contact with you was a truly wonderful experience for me, and I want to thank you again most sincerely. My emotions were thrown into turmoil several times, and I often tried to quickly regain my composure. You touched places and points within me that triggered a great deal of emotion, places I had never been touched before. It simply burst forth from me, and I still feel your energy and your presence very strongly.
After the massage, I would have preferred not to shower, so that the oil and the scents would linger and remind me of your touch. But even after showering yesterday and today, the fragrance still lingers and evokes a wonderful, warm feeling within me.
I was surprised yesterday by the physical after-effects. I never expected the massage to leave me so exhausted. I don't know if that's normal, but even though I was only passive, it really strained my body, which is actually used to a lot from sports. I can't really explain it, but your touch triggered a lot of things in my body.
If you also enjoyed it, I would like to repeat this experience with you again, and then I'm sure I won't seem so lost and will be able to handle my reactions better.
Thanks again for everything and see you again!
LG F.
30.04.2018


Thank you for the wonderful massage. It was a truly fantastic and beautiful experience.
I would be really happy if we could do this again sometime. If it were up to me, I could do it every week, or at least once a month.
I wish you a wonderful week too.
Best regards
A.
23.04.2018


Now that a few days have passed and I've had time to let the massage work its magic, I wanted to tell you again how wonderful it felt – from arriving at your place until saying goodbye. Totally relaxed, without any stress. I felt so free. It was a truly unique experience.
Thank you for that!
J.
April 10, 2018


I just wanted to write to you briefly about yesterday:
Those who give a lot will surely receive a lot in return!
I have great respect for your mindfulness.
And respect for your varied and full-time job. It keeps you in great shape, by the way!
I wish you all the best,
G.
March 31, 2018


I haven't yet had a chance to thank you again for the wonderful massage. I really enjoyed the holding and the breathing. The massage was so intense, so different. It was so heartfelt. I could really feel that. Thank you so much.
Best regards
M.
March 17, 2018


My dear! The massage turned my body back to normal. Thank you so much for your love and sweet energy, god bless you. Also thank you for the book recommendations, I will look into those. All the best, M.
February 7, 2018


It's been quite a while, but I've remembered those wonderful times from time to time.
I'd like to take this opportunity to compliment you again. It was one of my most wonderful experiences, and I'm very grateful to you for it.
Have a nice evening.
Warmest regards, C.
February 1, 2018


Merry Christmas and thanks again for the wonderful ritual for the three of us. My wife is still raving about it... It was truly fantastic. Best wishes and have a lovely weekend!
B.
December 13, 2017


A few days later, I would like to thank you for the wonderful experience of my first tantric massage.
From the very beginning, I felt a deep sense of trust, closeness, and naturalness in this very intimate encounter. It was surprisingly easy for me to fully concentrate on your sensitive touch and to passively surrender to this sensual experience in a pleasant and refined atmosphere.
Even days later, I feel a deep physical and mental relaxation – but also a pleasurable excitement. What a treat for body, mind, and soul!
I hope I can also make my partner curious about this sensual experience and thus enrich our relationship.
How wonderful that there are people like you!
Best regards
M.
October 26, 2017


I keep thinking about the massage you gave me.
It was simply heavenly!
Thanks!
A.
October 15, 2017


Thank you so much for this wonderful evening. We felt very comfortable with you. It was a blissful and fulfilling experience that will surely stay with us for a long time. Thank you so much. I wish you a beautiful, sunny day! C.
September 21, 2017


Thank you so much for your wonderful massage yesterday. It was heavenly and I felt incredibly comfortable with you. I still feel so much positive energy and am really enjoying it. Wishing you a lovely evening.
Warmest regards, J.
June 8, 2017


I wanted to get in touch with you again after a night's break and thank you. It was a very special experience that continues to resonate with me.
It inspired me and I've taken away some things that I'll probably think and feel about for a long time. Thank you very much! Best regards, M.
April 26, 2017


Thank you again so much for the wonderful experience yesterday!
I wasn't mistaken in thinking you were the right person for me; someone with whom a deeper connection is possible.
The massage had a depth I had never experienced before. Even though it was difficult for my mind to relax, you managed to allow my body to completely surrender.
06.01.2017, H.


It has now been almost three days since you touched me, and the comforting feeling that I couldn't describe immediately after the massage is still alive within me.
It felt so incredibly good to feel your presence. I'm also impressed that you weren't afraid of physical contact, since it was our first time meeting. Your empathy made it very easy for me to accept and enjoy your closeness. I also felt very strongly that you were able to connect with me, which in turn did me a lot of good.
This experience is definitely something that needs to be repeated.
Warm regards -- J.
30.04.2017


I was fascinated by how quickly I was able to surrender to your touch, even though it was my first tantric massage. I have never been touched so attentively and gently in my intimate area, not even by my partner. Your loving care was a special gift.
M., May 25, 2016


Your massage was like an inner cleansing for me. You showed me that I am okay just the way I am. I feel completely centered.
J., May 16, 2016


Once again, I'm experiencing how a tantric massage unfolds its effects days later, creating a deep and lasting impact. The wonderful massage you gave me last Thursday still deeply moves me, and whenever I'm not caught up in the demands of daily life, I savor the incredibly soothing touch of yours. Your physical closeness was an indescribably beautiful experience. I want to thank you again from the bottom of my heart! I hope to receive another massage from you this year.
Warmest regards from H., March 16, 2016